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Tips to Manage Resistance To Therapy for Kids
Parenting, Occupational Therapy Kimberley Arnett-DeSimone Parenting, Occupational Therapy Kimberley Arnett-DeSimone

Tips to Manage Resistance To Therapy for Kids

"Managing Resistance to Therapy for Kids" is about understanding and addressing the challenges parents and caregivers face when children are hesitant or unwilling to participate in therapy. Kids may resist therapy for various reasons, including fear of the unknown, discomfort with discussing their feelings, or simply not seeing the value in it. This topic explores strategies to help children overcome these barriers, emphasizing the importance of communication, creating a supportive environment, and working closely with therapists to make therapy a more welcoming and effective experience

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What are SMART Goals and How to Create Them
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What are SMART Goals and How to Create Them

SMART goals are a powerful method for guiding children's learning in a structured, achievable manner. SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. This approach ensures goals are clear and reachable within a certain timeframe, which can significantly enhance a child's ability to learn and succeed in various areas.

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A Guide to Kid Chores
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A Guide to Kid Chores

When you’re an adult, chores are just part of the day, and we hardly give common tasks much thought; we do them automatically as needed because they won’t get done if we don't. Yet our kids have to build up those mental muscles to do chores, and simply, if they don’t do them, well, the parents will. It’s our job to introduce chores to them at a reasonable and responsible pace. Our long-term goal is to guide our children toward becoming independent and responsible adults, move out of the house, and give us grandchildren “when we’re ready for them.” The burning question often is, "What's the ideal number of chores, and how do we start?"

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Are Schools Putting Too Much Pressure on Our Children?
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Are Schools Putting Too Much Pressure on Our Children?

Yes, from a professional standpoint, I think public schools put far too much pressure on our children to perform beyond what is age-appropriate. Nowadays, school seems to be about more than just reading, writing, and arithmetic. The pressure dial has been cranked up to eleven. Let's unpack this a bit, shall we?

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How To Motivate Your Child
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How To Motivate Your Child

Motivating children is a nuanced task beyond mere encouragement or the promise of rewards. It involves understanding their individual personalities, interests, and challenges. Parents are directly involved in shaping their children's intrinsic motivation, the inner drive that encourages them to pursue their interests and goals for their own satisfaction. This article delves into practical strategies parents can employ to get their children “into it,” whatever “it is.

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How To Direct Your Child
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How To Direct Your Child

In the intricate production of child development, educators, therapists, and parents play roles akin to that of a movie director, guiding young actors (children) through their performances with a technique known as prompting. Like a director who subtly cues an actor to deliver a line with just the right emotion, prompting involves offering cues or aids to elicit specific behaviors or responses. This article explores the method of prompting through the cinematic lens of directing, detailing its purpose, the rationale behind its use in educational and therapeutic settings, and its undeniable benefits.

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What Is Front Loading - Education
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What Is Front Loading - Education

Educators, therapists, and parents continuously seek effective strategies to facilitate learning, emotional regulation, and behavioral management in child development. One such approach, Front Loading, has gained attention for its effectiveness in various settings. This article takes a glimpse at Front Loading's future, exploring its definition, application, benefits, and specific uses in teaching.

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Depression in Children
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Depression in Children

Depression in children can manifest differently than in adults, making it sometimes hard to recognize. Symptoms might include persistent sadness, irritability, withdrawal from previously enjoyed activities, changes in appetite or sleep, vocal outbursts, or even physical complaints such as stomachaches and headaches. Parents must acknowledge these signs early and understand that depression is not just a phase or a matter of willpower; it's a real, clinical condition that requires empathy, understanding, and professional support when severe.

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Should You Help With Homework?
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Should You Help With Homework?

It’s rather apparent that you shouldn’t do your child's homework for them, right? The question of how much parental involvement is beneficial is nuanced. It touches on developing independence, problem-solving skills, and cultivating a healthy parent-child relationship. Drawing from clinical experience and academic research, this article aims to guide parents through the complexities of assisting with homework, outlining the pros and cons, and ultimately finding a balance.

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Co-Parenting Post-Divorce: Compromise Isn't Optional
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Co-Parenting Post-Divorce: Compromise Isn't Optional

The parenting journey is notably enriched with challenges, achievements, and constant learning. For divorced parents, this journey takes on additional complexity. Dissolving a marital relationship does not end the shared responsibility of raising a child. In this context, compromise emerges not just as a valuable skill but as a necessary foundation for the co-parenting relationship moving forward. Looking at circumstances from the other parent's point of view, treating them with respect as a co-parent, and letting go of the reasons you divorced are gifts you will give your child, not your ex.

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Competitive Sports at a Young Age
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Competitive Sports at a Young Age

Lace up your sneakers and take a walk with me to discuss a topic as divisive as pineapple on pizza: competitive sports for our little ones. Should you, or shouldn't you? It's not just about keeping them busy after school but shaping their young lives and emotional well-being. 

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Should Children Have to Share?
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Should Children Have to Share?

Sharing is a fundamental skill crucial to a child's social development and future interactions. However, sharing is often misunderstood and confused with a child’s ability to compromise. In this article, I'll explore the various aspects of sharing, provide analogies to help understand its importance and discuss the benefits and compromises associated with ownership.

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Tips for Raising an Only Child
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Tips for Raising an Only Child

Each child is unique; what works for one family might not work for another. It's all about finding what suits your family's dynamics and your child's personality. So, in this article, I’ll tread lightly with simple everyday advice, a little stating the obvious, and some personal observations from my experience working with many only-child families over the years.

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Helping Siblings Get Along
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Helping Siblings Get Along

Oh, the joys and challenges of parenting, especially when your household feels more like a battlefield than a peaceful sanctuary because your kids can't seem to get along. It's a story as old as time, but that doesn't make it any easier when you're the one living it. Well, let's sit down and chat about how you can help your kids build a bridge over their troubled waters.

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12 Tips for Traveling With Children
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12 Tips for Traveling With Children

Traveling with young ones is an adventure with opportunities for fun, learning, and making memories. But it also comes with challenges—how do you keep them engaged, calm, and safe while helping them soak in the new experiences? Here are some simple tips from a fellow parent to make your travels smoother and enjoyable for everyone.

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The Proper Use of Toys
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The Proper Use of Toys

In today's fast-paced and consumer-driven society, the idea that more is better has permeated the sanctity of childhood play. A simpler approach to playtime, emphasizing quality over quantity, is available and will benefit your little one in the long term. This post opens the conversation about the multifaceted benefits of toys for children, identifies two timeless toys that promise years of enjoyment, and explores some common challenges.

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How to Talk To Kids
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How to Talk To Kids

One of our most important roles as parents is being our children's primary communicators and educators. The way we talk to them—from infancy through adolescence—lays the foundation for their emotional intelligence, self-esteem, and perception of the world around them. Understanding and implementing best communication practices can significantly impact your child's development. Here are my thoughts from working with children for over thirty-five years.

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Activities of Daily Living Skills
Parenting, Occupational Therapy Robert DeSimone Parenting, Occupational Therapy Robert DeSimone

Activities of Daily Living Skills

As parents, one of our primary goals is to help our children grow into independent, capable individuals. A significant part of this journey involves mastering activities of daily living (ADLs) skills. These skills are the everyday tasks and routines essential for self-care and independent living, such as dressing, eating, personal hygiene, and managing personal spaces. If you're looking for ways to support your child in developing these critical skills, you're in the right place. Let's dive into some friendly advice and practical tips to make this journey rewarding for you and your child.

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Helping Your Picky Eater
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Helping Your Picky Eater

Many parents face the challenge of feeding picky eaters, whose underlying sensory processing issues often complicate meal times. Understanding these issues and adopting effective strategies can help parents successfully expand their children's eating palettes.

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Helping Children with Peer Pressure at Every Stage
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Helping Children with Peer Pressure at Every Stage

As children grow, they wander the complex social landscapes of childhood, adolescence, and even early Adulthood, often encountering the formidable force of peer pressure. Can parents help their young children through the varied terrains of social pressure, ensuring they emerge with confidence and integrity intact? They can, and here are some valuable tips.

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